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How to deal with holiday stress

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Everyone has had the experience of the holidays becoming stressful in some way. From finding the perfect gifts to dealing with a troublesome cousin over Christmas dinner. Here are some top tips from awesome bloggers on how to deal with Christmas stress this year.

Say no.

Saying no to all the little things that eat up your time and mental energy allows you to make time for the activities that make you feel refreshed.

Nora
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Be flexible.

We all know that no matter how well we plan ahead, get enough sleep, or keep our calendars clear, there will always be something that doesn’t go as planned.  And that’s okay.

Mary Leigh

Prioritize.

…a to-do list actually does help me to get things done more efficiently. I’m also less likely to forget something that I’ve written down. However, if your to-do list is constantly growing or you never cross everything off, then it might be time to evaluate what’s on it.

Stacey

Lower your expectations.

Over-hype and high expectations make preparing for Christmas festivities much more stressful. If you worry yourself over having the best decorations, the most presents, or the most memorable dinner party, you could end up trying too hard (and going a little crazy). 

Jennifer
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Shop online.

I really like going to the mall, wandering aimlessly from store to store, smelling every candle and lotion that has a tester. It’s a fun way to spend a lazy afternoon, but it’s not the best use of your time. Especially this time of year. The mall is crowded, checkout lines are long, and it just takes a lot longer than you anticipate.

Drugstore Divas
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Start a gratitude journal.

While you can’t always change your reality, you can change how you react. Manifesting an attitude of gratitude this holiday season is a great way to begin!

Holly
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Finish off all your Christmas shopping before Thanksgiving.

Having this extra time also helped me find ‘the right’ gifts and find the best prices! Yup, this saves me time, stress, and money. Can’t beat that!

Myra
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Enjoy your own company.

Maybe this has a greater impact if you’re an introvert, but my guess is that everyone can benefit from just a little time alone to think (or not think), or do exactly what you want without interruption. It doesn’t matter how you spend the time: browse a bookstore, pick up an old (or new) hobby, or just sit on a lounge chair in the backyard and feel the sun on your face.

Nora
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Delegate.

Maybe your husband doesn’t fold clothes exactly the way you like them, but he is capable of folding. So let him do it! Once you get over the worry of passing off tasks, you’ll see what a relief it is to have some help

Stacey

Simplify your Christmas decorating.

I simply didn’t have enough room to put up all the decorations in my house. Not enough shelf space to put things on, not enough corners to fill, not enough walls to hang things on… Once I decided on my end goal – peace and simplicity at Christmastime – the rest was easy. It was also very fun giving decorations away to extended family and friends who were quite excited to receive them. It provided blessings on both sides.

Myra
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Be honest and genuine about what you can (or can’t afford).

If you’re in a place where you simply can’t buy lots of gifts for tons of people (we’ve mostly all been there at some point, right?) then don’t hesitate to set that expectation. You are not obligated by anyone to gift anything. Don’t let guilt cause you to spend money you don’t have. Free yourself from that. 

Rachel
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Accept imperfection.

We’re constantly bombarded with images of the “perfect” Christmas — on television, magazines, commercials, and social media. It. Doesn’t. Exist.

Stacey

Pick your battles.

We all have someone in our circle that rubs us up the wrong way.  It’s only natural, not everyone can always get along.  Allowing someone else to get under your skin, though, is only going to ruin your Christmas and increase your stress levels. Learn to pick your battles, and don’t take the bait if relatives want to argue or things go wrong. 

Attachment Mummy
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Personally, I plan to let a lot of things roll off my back these holidays. A lot of picking of battles. In a way that has never been me. So this will be a surprise to some people around me and if I manage to pull it off the whole time, it will be a surprise to me too!

How have you dealt with the stress of the holidays over the years?

This Post Has 10 Comments

  1. Great advice for how to deal with holiday and Christmas stress. I love this time of year, but it can be super stressful, especially since Thanksgiving fell a little late this year. Your advice is super practical and I totally lowered my expectations and shopped online this year. I will have to keep in mind your other advise as well. Thanks for the great post.

    1. Thanks for stopping by!

  2. Saying no can be difficult but it is a necessity for your mental health.

    1. Very much so

  3. I really LOVE all of your tips. Especially the one about enjoying your own company. I think what I’ll do is plan 1 day out of the month taking myself out on a date. And OMG I have got to learn how to say no, I try to help so many people and eventually burn out. It was easier to say yes to everything before I brought a little human into this world.

    1. lol yes. It’s realising how little time you seem to have available in the day now and knowing you need to prioritise more.

  4. Great advice! I will say shopping online has been my saving grace this year! And I told myself to be okay with saying “no”. I am naturally one to want everyone happy; but what about me! So that has helped me as well lately. I need time for me and be okay with it! Thank you for sharing!

    1. I’m just about to settle down after putting baby to bed and do some online shopping too! I agree on your other point too – and I’m reminding myself all the time now that you can’t make everyone happy all the time.
      Thanks for stopping by!

  5. Hi Kin,

    Really awesome tips! The holidays can be very stressful and sometimes we just need to remind ourselves to calm down and take everything in bites size. Say “no’ is probably the hardest thing to do for mothers! We want to ensure everyone is happy especially our babies!

    Thank you for sharing!

    Love,

    Kayla | Mommy Blogger | My Motherhood Made Easy
    http://www.mymotherhoodmadeeasy.com

  6. You always want to be honest with what your budget is. More so during the holiday season. Never overspend. You’ll feel it in the end.

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