Why Do I Want a Baby So Badly? 5 Key Reasons Behind Baby Fever

“Why do I want a baby so badly?” If you find yourself thinking about babies all the time lately, know that you are not crazy. It is not unusual and there could be several reasons for the way you are feeling.

What is it called when you want to have a baby?

Feeling broody. Baby fever. That strong emotional desire you have that seems to be almost tugging at your very ovaries is one that women have all the time. Women can feel broody at various times throughout the year and yes, sometimes even right after pushing a baby out!

Some of these possible reasons for your baby fever are ones that you might immediately have thought of when you wondered why you cannot stop thinking about having a baby. Some might be new possibilities. Before you embark on the journey to parenthood, it is good to consider your why.

What is causing your baby fever?

1. You crave an extension of yourself. A mini-me. One might attribute this desire to the Biological Imperative. The Biological Imperative asserts that there are things that every species does to propagate itself. Human beings, like any other species, both male and female, will feel the desire to see themselves re-created in another person or other people. 

2. You are spending time around other people’s newborns. Newborns are just so adorable aren’t they? They are so cute. They are even cuter when they are not yours. Sure, you might be chipping in on a few nappy changes here and there. The experience of living with a newborn around the clock is different. You get to inhale their wonderful baby scent and stroke their perfect baby skin without worrying about the grunt work that comes with taking care of a baby. No wonder you want a baby so badly.

3. You want to give a child the kind of love you were given. You had an amazing childhood. A loving one. You have so many treasured memories of your childhood and you would love to be able to re-create that same kind of beautiful childhood for your own child. You want a child who can come to experience the same kind of love and with the same family members that you had. 

4. You want to give a child the kind of love you were never given. Your childhood was one that left a lot to be desired. If you had the choice to go back into time and you could control things, there are a lot of things that you would change. You now have the opportunity to give a child the kind of life that you did not have and so you find yourself thinking all the time about how much you want a baby. 

5. Your hormones. Does ovulation make you want a baby? Science would say it can. A woman’s oestrogen and progesterone levels are at their highest during ovulation and the hormones released may make you want to feel physically closer to your partner. In the process, you may start to think about how great it would be to have a baby together.

5 Ways to Manage Baby Fever While Planning for the Future

Feeling broody and thinking about babies nonstop can be overwhelming, especially when you’re not quite ready to take the plunge into parenthood. It’s important to acknowledge those feelings while also giving yourself space to plan thoughtfully for the future. Here’s how to manage baby fever:

1. Reflect on your why

Take some quiet time to journal or talk with a trusted friend about why you want a baby so badly. Is it the idea of taking care of someone? The joy of starting a family? Understanding your motivation can help you figure out whether this is the right season to pursue motherhood or if it’s more about an emotional desire you can explore in other ways.

2. Channel your mothering energy

Baby fever often comes from a strong desire to care for someone or something. While planning for the future, try out a new hobby, caring for a pet or volunteering with children. These can provide fulfilment while giving you time to prepare emotionally and financially for the big step of having a baby.

3. Educate yourself about parenthood

If baby fever has you constantly dreaming of little ones, use this time to educate yourself about what parenthood entails. Read parenting books, watch documentaries or talk to other moms about their experiences. The more you know, the more confident you’ll feel when you’re ready to start a family.

4. Focus on building your life foundation

Before bringing a baby into the world, think about the kind of life you’d like to create for your future family. Are there financial, career, or personal goals you want to achieve first? Use your desire for a baby as motivation to take steps toward those goals, like saving money, building a support system or improving your health.

5. Practice gratitude for the present

It’s easy to get caught up in dreaming about the future but don’t forget to appreciate the life you have now. Focus on your current relationships, personal growth and the joys of the present moment. This mindset not only helps ease baby fever but also prepares you to become a parent who’s grounded and grateful.

If you’re feeling broody, know that it’s a natural and deeply human experience. While planning for a baby might not happen overnight, managing your feelings thoughtfully can help you prepare for the future with a clearer heart and mind.

Are you feeling broody? Are you always thinking about having a baby lately?
Have you been asking yourself, “Why do I want a baby so badly?”
Why do you think that is?

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